Q: Are all
clothing optional resorts swinging lifestyle oriented?
A: No! Definitely not! There
are many clothing optional resorts (here in the US in particular) that
are family oriented nudist vacation spots like this one. The
atmosphere of these resorts is more geared toward families. In fact,
some of these resorts actively dislike having lifestyle oriented
guests.
Q: So nudists and swingers
aren't the same thing?
A: While it is
true that some swingers are nudists, and some nudists are swingers,
there are huge philosophical differences between the groups. Nudist
groups try very hard (and rightfully so) to separate family nude
recreation from any sort of sexual activity.
Q: So you are
saying that swing couples should avoid "nudist" venues, like AANR
affiliates?
A: Not at all. We are saying
don't go on vacation to Silver Valley Sun Club and behave like you are
at Hedonism II. If you enjoy clothing optional recreation, go and have
a great time....and you never know, you might meet other couples there
who enjoy the same swinging activities as you do. Just don't do it
on the grounds of Silver Valley Sun Club.
Q:
Swimming in the nude - doesn't it feel odd ?
A: On the contrary - it feels great. There is no costume to
(possibly) chafe, your whole body slips through the water, without any
encumbrances other than those nature gave you when you were born. And,
as an added bonus, when you get out, there's no wet/clammy costume to
wander around/sit in - your skin dries much quicker than any swimming
costume,
and is more comfy.
Q: Naturism -
isn't it all about SEX ?
A: NO, not even.
Q: So why else
do you take off all your clothes in the presence of others ?
A: Firstly, the presence of others has nothing to do with
feeling comfortable without any clothing, and probably for the first
few times it may only inhibit the enjoyment! Once you feel comfortable
in the nude, then you will probably try to increase the number of
times you can relax 'au natural', and as we tend to like socializing
it is only natural that we then look to mixing with others. That this
can happen nude or otherwise is an added bonus.
Q: Ah, so you
do want to be nude with others!
A: Sure - just as we like to be with others clothed.
Q: Um.... well
isn't it a bit embarrassing for men.. how do they avoid becoming
aroused/getting an erection with nude women around ?
It's non-sexual nudity remember? Nude does not
automatically mean sex, that's a myth; it's unfortunate
that many in society were actually brought up to believe that.
We would submit that at today's pools and beaches
that women are running around today in the skimpiest of Bikinis
(designed specifically to be sexually attractive) yet you don't see
men visibly aroused. Why? Because your mindset isn't there for
that, you're there to swim, water-ski, surf, suntan or whatnot; you're
not in a bedroom! Same is true here but now, when both sexes loose the
costumes you're now on the same plane, just as if you were both
fully clothed, get it?
Common sense and respect for others prevails
here.
For more information and thoughts on this
admittedly controversial subject go
here.
Q: I keep
reading all these terms: CO//textile/nudist/naturist/etc. - what do
they all mean ?
A: A brief, but non-exhaustive list of terms:
CO:
Clothing Optional
Nudist: One who likes to relax
without clothing.
Naturist: See
'nudist'. Often extended to include more 'eco-conscious' items.
Textile:
non-nudist person who e.g. on a beach prefers to wear bathing
costumes. Also used to refer to areas of beaches which are non-nudist
????
Q: Isn't it
irresponsible to be sunning nude ? Cancer/sunburn etc ?
A: The area of skin covered by a bathing costume doesn't really
make much difference to the above problems - the same precautions have
to be taken nude or in a costume. That said, high sun-protections is
ALWAYS advisable when exposing parts of your body which do not usually
'see the sun' for the first few times - just as you should anyway.
Q:
I'm not a perfect '10' figure (male/female) - don't you have to have a
perfect body to go stripping off before others ?
A: No. The same reasoning doesn't seem to apply on 'textile'
beaches - what difference does nudity make here ?
Q: Do I have to
be a member of a club/organization ?
A: No - But we highly recommend membership in AANR just for
the support alone!